Category Archives: Tales To Tell

Blog Caroling – Silent Night

blog carolingFrom 1941 through the First Gulf War, Bob Hope was a Christmas tradition for any household with family members serving in whatever conflict took them away from home. I remember in high school and college watching the audiences looking for people I knew.

Every show ended with Silent Night. It began with one of the entertainers singing the first verse and then everyone joining in. It was always an emotional experience for the entertainers, the audience and those of us watching from home – even looking today.

Here is a look back at Bob Hope’s legacy that ends – as always – with Silent Night.

A Tale of Two Turkeys

Over the decades, the folks up at The Farm went through several different growing phases. First there was cotton and when that collapsed they were growing various subsidized crops to try and replenish the soil. I remember the hog phase, the sheep phase, the cattle phase and especially the turkey phase. I still have the scars from that one.

During our visits to the farm, it was our chore to feed the chickens and gather eggs, so when the turkeys came along we first thought they were just big chickens. WRONG! Turkeys are mean! At that time we were close to turkey height – giving them the attack advantage. One pecked me in the face – just missing my eye – and leaving a scar that is finally beginning to recede into the wrinkles. We quickly learned to stay out of their way – and carry a stick at all times.
Holiday Turkey
We did learn to appreciate those turkeys when, just before Thanksgiving, a 35-pound fresh turkey packed in dry ice arrived on the bus. This was before the days of UPS and FedEx. Many a package was shipped by bus or Railway Express. In our case, the bus worked faster than most of today’s ground shipping – if you were savvy to the schedules. In small town America of the 1950s and early 60s, the local Greyhound agent and railway agent could schedule a shipment from departure to destination – making each connection to keep the package moving and not stuck in the freight room. It wasn’t unusual that a package from the farm arrived in St. Augustine the next day.

A 35-pound turkey is a sight to behold. It’s also a lot of food for a family of five. It was delicious – the first five or six meals – but started getting monotonous real soon. So, when the 38-pound turkey arrived just before Christmas, we were a little less than overjoyed. We were still eating turkey well into February.

From then on, Mom would serve turkey either at Thanksgiving or at Christmas, but never again at both.

This is the face of genealogy

Holland School 1909

The LAWeekly recently posted a short article about the upcoming Southern California Genealogical Society Jamboree with an outrageously inappropriate photo and caption ridiculing Southerners [details at GeneaBloggers]. I am very proud of my Southern heritage – especially my ancestors who lived in remote areas.

In this photo, the students of the Holland School in rural northwest Georgia pose for a photo in 1909. The woman in the center of the back row is my grandmother, Lois Link. She spent her life teaching children in rural communities. The class schedules often had to work around the many chores these children had to do on the family farms. These people were not wealthy, but they managed to find ways to build schools, hire and house teachers so their children could be educated.

I spent many a summer in this community playing with the children of these children and learned many things about their world. I still love to get away to the peace and beauty of the “old home place”. And, while they enjoy their gossip and practical jokes at the expense of others, I never saw anything like the vindictiveness of the LAWeekly photo. It seems to be a common occurrence in media circles to belittle those who don’t speak or act like they do.

So, tell me who – exactly – is suffering from inbreeding?

The Castle

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A look at the Castillo through the eyes of an early 20th century travel writer. From Florida: The Land of Enchantment (1918) . . .

Looking out from the city gates and toward the water, one beholds the real defence of St. Augustine. When danger threatened, the inhabitants felt that they had a secure retreat within the walls of impregnable Castle San Marco, whose walls face you here like the gray stone walls of so many fortresses of the Old World. For more than three centuries a fortress has occupied this spot. When the Spaniards first landed here in 1565, they discovered an Indian fortified camp which they immediately converted into a log fort for temporary protection. This was succeeded by a more pretentious fort, which was given the name of San Juan de Pinos, St. John of the Pines, and it was this fort that was taken by Sir Francis Drake. Less than a century later work was begun on a substantial stone fort and Apalachian Indians, captives of the Spaniards, were set at work upon its walls. For sixty years these aborigines labored and sweated here. It was only after a century of unrequited toil by unwilling laborers, Indian captives, black slaves and convicts, that the imposing fortress was considered completed in the year 1756. Upon it was bestowed the name of San Marco (St . Mark). So remarkable had been the cost of San Marco that the Spanish monarch is said to have exclaimed that the curtains and bastions must have been built of solid silver pesos.

Castillo de San MarcosThe castle, as the Spaniards termed San Marco, was constructed of the famous coquina rock, which is quarried opposite the town. The blocks of quarried stone were carried on cross-bars, resting on the shoulders of slaves, over a long causeway to a landing where they were loaded on barges. An escutcheon bears the arms of Spain, and the inscription sets forth that “Don Fernando the VI, being King of Spain, and Field Marshal Don Alonzo Fernandez de Hereda, being Governor and Captain General of the city of San Agustin, Florida, and its province, this fort was finished in the year 1756. The works were directed by the captain-engineer, Don Pedro de Brazas y Garay.”

The old fort is an imposing gray pile reminiscent of the days of feudalism. It conjures up pictures of splendor and cruelty that one is apt to associate with the mediaeval castles of Europe. It is a square, with bastions at each of the four corners, which were originally named after the four apostles. It has a record of never having been taken by a besieging enemy. The walls enclose an open court, which is a little more than one hundred feet each way. The only entrance is through the sallyport, in the midde of the south curtain. At each outer angle is a sentry box, but the one on the northeast corner is much higher than the others and was used as a watch tower. From it the sentinel could discern every approaching vessel in time to give warning. With the other three sentry towers, every possible angle of approach was guarded against. The sentinel could remain unobserved and fire through the opening left for the purpose. It is a complete mediaeval fortress, with all the customary parts. A moat forty feet wide surrounded the walls, and this could be flooded from the river at high tide. Automatic gates opened when the tide came in and closed when it went out. This moat has now been filled to the depth of several feet with sand. A barbican, or fortified gate, protected the entrance, which could only be entered by passing over a drawbridge and under a heavy portcullis. Here there was a hole through which melted lead could be poured upon invaders.

The walls of Fort Marion are nine feet thick at the bottom and half as thick at the top, and they are twentyfive feet above the moat level of today. Around the court are a series of rooms which were intended for the ordinary needs of the garrison. In the north wall is the chapel, of which the altar and the niches still remain. Prisoners were brought up to a barred door to hear mass, but they could not be brought inside, for there they could claim the right of sanctuary. Another room was used for punishment, and prisoners were chained to the walls so that they were compelled to maintain an upright position, being able neither to sit or lie down. Near the torture chamber is a dark room that remained undiscovered by the Americans until 1839, when the falling in of some masonry led to its disclosure. The guides relate very touching tales of starved and tortured prisoners who were incarcerated here, and walled up to await death. The story seems plausible enough, and the visitors listen almost with blanched faces to the harrowing stories. Plain truth says that this was originally intended as a powder magazine, but when it became too damp for this purpose it was walled up as a sanitary measure. An incline formerly led up to the terreplane, which is almost forty feet wide, and here there were mountings for sixty-four guns. The plane has recently been converted into steps.

Sally PortIt was on the 10th day of July, in the year 1821, that the guns of the fort thundered their parting salute to the old flag, and the Spanish troops marched for the last time across the drawbridge. Then these same guns thundered forth a rousing welcome to the new banner, and the Stars and Stripes were unflung to the breeze. The name of the fortress was changed to Fort Marion, after General Francis Marion, of Revolutionary fame. A hot-shot furnace was built on the water front in 1844, and still remains. It was intended to heat shot to a white heat and then discharge them from mortars at an approaching enemy. Near it will be observed the place where the Spaniards executed their prisoners, and the marks of the fatal shots are still to be seen on the walls. Cannon were also mounted along the sea wall. The last use of these cannon were as a quarantine signal to incoming vessels. The last shot was fired in 1867 from one of these guns at a little schooner which failed to heed the first signal. It was taken possession of by Florida troops, on January 7, 1861, by order of the governor. This was before the ordinance of secession was passed. It remained in the hands of the Confederates for several months before being surrendered to the United States.

The visitor to St. Augustine should wander out to old Fort Marion by himself, and, if possible, at night, when the moon is flooding the landscape with its silvery light. Then the changes in the surroundings are not so noticeable, and the walls seem even more grim and terrible. The moon throws a broad pathway of silver across the Matanzas River toward the opposite shore. Then one’s imagination can rehabilitate the scene as it was in its earliest days, with booted and mailed Spanish cavaliers walking or strutting around. One can picture the dark outlines of boats loaded with stone from the quarries, and with the most motley of crews toiling laboriously at the oars. There are convicts from Spain and Mexico, political prisoners, slaves and even Seminole braves who are prodded to effort by the sabers and bayonets of old Spain in the creation of this acme of mediaeval forts, which stands here almost unscarred today. In places the moonlight seems to touch the bastions and towers with a glow of silver, as if in an attempt to soften its grimness and austerity.

St. Augustine Bayfront

In the moving panorama the lordly Briton succeeded the Spaniard, and within its walls have been imprisoned scores of colonial patriots from Charleston and Georgia, and the crews of ships taken by privateers. We are still shown the cells where Coacoochee and Osceola were confined, and from which the former made his celebrated escape. Osceola proudly refused to accompany him. The last prisoners confined here were also Indians, of the Comanche, Kiowa and the Cheyenne tribes, in 1875. One can almost distinguish the clanging bolt and bar and hear the shutting of the doors upon manacled wretches who were never again to look upon the smiling face of the sun. One can almost see the burning lamp before the tabernacle, and restore the images to their niches, bringing back the pageantry of ceremonial rites and the chant of the solemn mass.

This fortress has seen one band of intruders after another set foot on the shores here, and has witnessed all the changes through which these United States of America has passed. Its outlines have been tenderly softened by time and the elements, and its moat has been choked with drifting sands. The drawbridge long ago disappeared, and the legend on the escutcheon is barely legible. Ponderous doors have been demolished, and bars have in places given place to window panes — but the imagination restores all these things, and one is soon lost in reverie. Thus it is that old Fort Marion, somewhat neglected but still clothed in dignity, awaits the obliterating hand of the oncoming centuries.

Source: Winter, Nevin Otto. 1918. Florida: the land of enchantment. Including an account of its romantic history. Boston: Page. (via Google Books)

At the drive-in

In my teen years, nightlife revolved around two places – and both of them were drive-ins. One was a restaurant and the other was a theater.

Russell’s BBQ had a dirt parking shaded by a huge oak tree and some of the best french fries I ever put in my mouth. There were stools at a counter inside the restaurant, but most people ate in their car. Once the sun went down on Friday and Saturday nights, however, it became a social mecca for kids – a place to see and be seen. If you didn’t have a date, you went to see who else was loose. If you did have a date, you had to convince him to at least drive through so you could show him off. There was the occasional altercation, but in such a small town the police were never far away and things were settled quickly.

Flamingo RisingThis is a clip from the movie “Flamingo Rising” which was filmed in St. Augustine. The drive-in set was built on Marineland property south of town.

The San Marco Drive-In theater was already a fixture in town, but when our only walk-in theater closed (just as I was entering high school) the San Marco quickly realized they had a captured audience and immediately reduced their movie rental budget. After all, who went to the drive-in to watch a movie? I cannot name a single movie I watched there. If there was a movie that we REALLY HAD TO SEE, we would drive to a theater in Jacksonville to watch it.

Traffic at Russell’s was constantly changing throughout the evening, but the San Marco was a destination. And, while you were likely to find a number of cars with windows fogged up, the majority of kids were there to socialize. It wasn’t unusual to find groups forming between cars and around the snack bar. In the days before youth centers and teen nightclubs, this and high school dances were our primary forms of entertainment.

At both drive-ins the car was an important accessory. It was the era of the muscle car and while I don’t remember the names of some of the boys I had crushes on back then, I do remember their cars. The Oldsmobile 442 was cute – and surprised that I could handle a 4-speed. Then there was the home town boy with a Plymouth Barracuda fastback I met at a drive-in theater in Rome, Georgia, of all places. The Mustang Boss 302 was tall, dark and adorable but he was still carrying a torch for another girl.

CamaroThis is the car I married.

It’s not surprising that the man I married was also driving a muscle car when we first met – many years after those drive-in days. Some things just never change.

I can’t drive 55

Dad always had a fascination for fast cars and convertibles. We enjoyed many great cars as we grew up, but my favorite didn’t show up until the mid ’80s. In his early 70s at the time, Dad picked up a beautiful Triumph TR-7 – you remember, the wedge-shaped car. His was a convertible, of course. I saw it after he had finished the restoration – new roof, new carpet, new seats and the engine rebuilt. It was a beauty and it could fly!

One Saturday morning he arrived at my house unannounced to show it off. It was a gorgeous spring day and he was ready to rumble. The top was down and Dad was wearing his tweed driving cap.

We drove out the old river road, which had served as a drag strip in both his youth and mine. After we got out into the fields, he floored it so I could see what it could do. It was most impressive. He then let me have a turn at the wheel and I got to enjoy testing it’s limits.

As we neared the city limits, Dad directed me to head to the mall. Once there, he headed straight to the music store. Hmmm. A young clerk asked if Dad needed any assistance. He replied that he was looking for a song that had something to do with driving 55. Of course, what he wanted was George Thorogood’sSammy Hagar’s I Can’t Drive 55 and, of course they had it at the store.

There was only one problem. The TR-7 only had an 8-track player [remember them?] and the store only had cassettes. They did have an adapter thingy that you put your cassette into then plugged it into the 8-track player. About $50 later we walked out of the store with everything necessary to play this one song. Let me repeat – play this ONE song.

Getting from the mall back to Dad’s house required driving through downtown St. Augustine. Imagine narrow streets, gridlock traffic and an old man in a hot convertible with George ThorogoodSammy blaring. I’m sure we were a very entertaining sight, but Dad was having a ball.

Every time I hear that song I think of him and his TR-7.

Mi triumph Tr7 1969
I don’t have a photo of Dad’s TR-7 so I went to Flickr to find a similar one. This is the same year, but his was white and had the luggage rack on the trunk.

The Farm

Last Sunrise at Chattoogaville
Last sunrise at the Chattoogaville farm before it was sold.

To us it was always just The Farm. Many summers Mom would pack us all up into the family car and make the 500+ mile – pre Interstate – trek to the tiny community of Holland, Georgia, to enjoy the pleasures of rural northwest Georgia. We always looked forward to those trips.

Just after the Civil War, our Barker great-grandparents bought land on Kincaid Mountain – just south of Holland – and began raising their family. Our grandfather, Dolph, was born there. Mom, and her brother and sisters, were born just up the road in Lyerly. Grandmother Lois moved the family to Tennessee several years after Dolph died, but did not sell the Barker home place in Georgia. As her children grew and left home, they began wandering the country. Uncle Tom served as a Seebee during the war. Later he traveled the country working as an electrical engineer building power plants and other exotic (to us) projects. Mary and Lin spent time working in Tennessee, Florida, New Orleans and Georgia. Although Tom was married briefly after the war, Mom was the only one with children. Aunts Lin and Mary never married.

The Barkers - Mary, Lois, Lin and TomWhen Lois retired, she and her three single children returned to Georgia. The old home place on Kincaid Mountain was no longer habitable so the family bought another farm a few miles up the road. The new property bordered the little country church where the Barker family was buried. The house sat on a hill with Kincaid Mountain rising behind it. It looked out across the valley to another mountain – I don’t remember which one.

This is The Farm of our childhood.

There were many “chores” to keep us occupied – feeding chickens, plowing fields with Uncle Tom and picking vegetables for meals. There were kids our age in the neighborhood for entertainment and we easily adjusted to country living.

Plowing with Uncle TomEach summer there would be at least one special excursion. One year we panned for gold at Dahlonega. We made several trips up Lookout Mountain to “see” Rock City, ride the incline and visit Ruby Falls. Of course we visited the Choo Choo in Chattanooga, but we also visited the Civil War battlefields in the area – Chickamauga and Lookout Mountain – and learned that our great-grandfather fought in both.

A lot of my memories are just snapshots – one picture with little else to back it up. . .

  • A big family picnic at Cousin Marcus’ cabin. The cabin was built next to a spring so the front porch sat right at the edge of the water. We were fascinated with the outhouse.
  • There were lots of border collies used to herd cattle on the neighborhood farms. One summer Mom bought a puppy which we brought home with us. Nina was one of the best dogs of my childhood. The other was one of her pups.
  • After they began raising pigs, one of the sheds was turned into a smokehouse. I remember the hams hanging from the rafters and the heavenly smells.
  • Cousin Rob Dan’s bomb shelter. I don’t really remember what it looked like, just how “progressive” (it had an entirely different meaning back then) he was for having one. We Florida folk couldn’t have one, because we couldn’t dig more than 3 feet without hitting water.

Kudzu and AlfalfaSeveral years after grandmother died, they sold the Holland farm and bought another in Chattoogaville – a few miles away. This farm backed up to the river and had a huge spring on the property. It was a beautiful place, but the house was right up on the highway. For years they worked on that house – transforming it from a four-room farm house into a split-level with suites for each of them and multiple parlours to hold all their collected treasures.

By this time we were working adults and only able to make short visits – no more long summer vacations. I lived in the Macon area for several years after leaving the Air Force and I loved going up there for weekends. We didn’t do much – walk the farm, visit neighbors and cousins, enjoy the fall color and eat lots of good food – but it was always a welcoming place.

I always made a point to go up there for Columbus Day weekends. We’d drive through the countryside enjoying the fall colors and tramp up to the Old Home Place on Kincaid Mountain. As a child I vaguely remember the remains of a chimney, but by this time even that was gone. Still, there was something spiritual about the place – a friendly, relaxing and welcoming feeling.

New Hope South CemeteryI’d always come home from these visits with my car full of both fresh and canned vegetables – and often some special dish or baked treat.

These Barkers have moved one last time – to join the rest of the family at the little cemetery in Holland. The Chattoogaville farm was sold, but the Old Home Place is still in the family. It’s our connection to the people who are no longer with us.

From the Archive: The Buccaneer Lodge

Most tourists visiting the St. Augustine Alligator Farm pay little notice to the narrow, tree-lined road they use to get to the attraction’s parking lots. A short drive down that road will introduce you to one of the most interesting neighborhoods on Anastasia Island. Old Quarry Road – as it was re-named in the 1970s – was first used by the Spanish to drag large blocks of coquina from the quarry at the present-day Amphitheater to Quarry Creek. From there the blocks were loaded on barges and floated across the bay to be used in the construction of the Castillo de San Marcos.

Centuries later – in May 1917 – Alfred Day bought a parcel described as:

Beginning at Quarry Creek, highwater mark, run thence along old Light House Road, 222 feet, thence northwest to land of Hite, 190 feet, thence west to marsh, thence along Marsh, 350 feet to point of beginning.

The Buccaneer Lodge

He built a house looking out over Quarry Creek and the marsh surrounding it. The three-story house was large with wide eaves and wrap-around porches to shade the rooms on the lower floor. The construction used local resources – coquina for the foundation, heart pine and cypress for framing, cedar shingles for siding and palm tree trunks as pillars to support the porch. It had 12-foot ceilings and each room had windows on at least two walls to best catch the seabreezes. The house was built for summer comfort – the only heat consisted of two fireplaces and later a floor furnace in the living room. The property was bordered on the north and east sides by the Heckscher estate with woods to the south.

West side of house In 1940, the estate of Alfred Day’s widow, Laura, sold the property to Adolph Bittner. Mr. Bittner created the Buccaneer Lodge in the house and managed it until October 1952 when he sold the house to William and Marjorie Barrett (our parents) and moved back to Germany. I’ve tried to get more information about “the Lodge period” but haven’t found much yet. Although many locals from my parents’ generation remember it for luncheons and private parties, city directories during that period don’t mention it.

At some point during the time Mr. Bittner owned the property, “old Light House Road” became Young Avenue and was extended across the marsh to connect with Coquina Avenue. Quarry Creek was only a trickle of water at our end and was no longer used to define the property line. There were only four other homes on Young Avenue with lots of woods and marsh to keep children occupied. We had plenty of wildlife – racoons and armadillos, owls, wild pigs and even an occasional alligator.

For several years our only source of water came from an artesian well located on the property behind us. Because this was “sulfa” water, we had the Culligan man visiting frequently to replenish the water softener. There was a cistern under the house and at one time all the gutters emptied into it. On the back porch a hand pump was used to draw water from the cistern. I’m sure before there was such a thing as water-softening, the rainwater was put to good use.

Ballerina My younger sister and I were still pre-schoolers when Dad had a small barn built at the back of the property and bought each of us horses. He then went back to sea leaving Mom to deal with the horses and all the kids they attracted. The horses were the first things to go when Mom and Dad were divorced in 1959.

The house’s large porches served many purposes. Grandma’s wicker furniture – with a little help from some old sheets – became castles or forts on rainy days. Many a production was staged on the porch including the magic show where my cousin and I were going to saw my sister in half. [Fortunately for her, Mom decided to check just what it was we were planning to do with that saw.] It was also a great place for birthday parties and other noisy functions.

Many of my memories of that house have to do with sounds. You knew it was getting close to dinner time when the National Guard shot off their cannon during retreat. I remember laying in bed in the early morning stillness listening to the shrimp boats. I could hear them motor from their docks on the San Sebastian River, up the bay, through the draw at the Bridge of Lions and on until they passed the old Spanish fort and turned to head out the inlet. Of course there were lots of animal sounds – from the alligator farm came the rumbles and moans of the alligators during mating season and the screams of the peacocks. The raccoons were always arguing with each other out in the marsh and the owls frequently added their voice to the conversation. In the background to all of this was the sound of the surf. Once the traffic and other noise of the day settled down, the surf was always there.

After my parents divorced, Mom closed in one side of the porch to make a classroom for the kindergarten she started. For close to 10 years, her school provided income while allowing her to be a stay-at-home mom. It was the only room in the house with both heat and air-conditioning thanks to a window unit installed during the construction. As a result, it became our “Florida room” each summer after school was out. While it was a great thing for the family, it did destroy the much of the beauty of the house.

New Bikes In the early 60s the neighborhood started to develop. Just beyond our property, they began filling in parts of the marsh to build homes along Coquina Avenue. Across Young Avenue a small development was built in “our” woods – you can see the cleared land in this photo.

At one point, the city dug up the street to install sewer lines supporting some of this development. Under the old live oak just outside our driveway gate the construction crew dug up the bones of two Indians. Since Indians had been involved in the quarry operations during the fort construction and signs of an Indian village were found just behind the alligator farm, it wasn’t surprising to find Indian remains in the area. Then someone happened to remember a story about a pirate – I can’t remember which one – who was coming to see the governor of Florida about some kind of amnesty deal. This pirate expected a double-cross so according to the story he buried his treasure on the south side of a live oak tree on Anastasia Island – and killed and buried his two Indian servants with it. That announcement brought out every metal detector and shovel for a 10-mile radius – keeping the neighborhood in chaos for weeks. Of course, there was no treasure – just a lot of disappointed treasure hunters.

We weathered many storms in that house. Most hurricanes came from the Gulf and had lost much of their punch by the time they got here. Flooding was the biggest concern so our house – built with a high crawl-space – was the logical place for friends and neighbors with houses built on slabs. This worked well until Dora came to visit in 1964. Because Dora was coming at us directly from the Atlantic, Mom decided to head inland for this one. Although the house was not damaged, we lost several trees on the property – one just missing the house. We were all glad we didn’t stay for that storm.

Maura, Tot and Denise with puppies I left home when I enlisted in the Air Force in 1972. I was home for holidays and leave – and long weekends once I was stationed in Mississippi. I drove – with one other person – non-stop from Omaha, Nebraska, for my sister’s wedding. The reception was to be held at the house so you can imagine the work that went into getting it ready. I spent most of that vacation polishing brass doorknobs and silver trays and scrubbing anything that could be scrubbed. The wedding was beautiful and the house looked glorious.

Some point after that the city changed Young Avenue to Old Quarry Road. For years they had tried to pave the road, but that would have required cutting many of the old oaks and cedars that lined it. The residents fought hard to keep the trees. Finally an arrangement was made to pave the road while leaving the trees. Fortunately, most of the character of the old road is still intact.

Mom died in 1983 and we sold the house soon after. Several years later the new owner made a deal to use the house in a movie. The movie – Illegally Yours – never made it to movie theaters but still occasionally shows up on movie channels. The old kindergarten classroom figures prominently as the family kitchen. I was in Germany when it was finally released and someone sent us a home-made video tape. At some point during its journey to us, the tape lost all its audio. Didn’t matter – it was less distraction while we looked for local landmarks and friends who had been hired as extras.

The house has been sold several more times and each new owner has worked to restore it. The classroom is gone and the porches returned to their original glory. The yard has been landscaped beautifully. We’ve gone back once – when it was featured in a Christmas tour of homes several years ago. It was a delightful visit.

Christmas Toys We lived an enchanted childhood in a glorious old house built for family living in a world that no longer exists. Who in their right mind would allow children to roam the woods, marshes and roads unsupervised day after day? Can you imagine a scenario today with five neighborhood children – all with the measles – camped out in one house while they recuperate? Cellphones? Our parents got us headed home by ringing the bell outside the back door. Each family’s bell had a distinctive clang. The house still thrives, but it is no longer the home of our childhood. That world no longer exists, but today each of our homes includes the essence that made the big house so special.

It’s called family.

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Twinkle Lights

One Christmas while I was still in the Air Force, I came home for what I expected would be a quiet holiday.

There were no young children in the family at that time so our custom was to go to midnight mass on Christmas Eve then come home and open our presents after the service. That way we could all sleep in on Christmas day. Midnight mass had become such a huge service at our church that on this particular year they had decided to have a family service earlier in the evening. We chose to attend the early service and enjoyed one of the most joyful celebrations of Christmas we’d ever experienced.

The normal processional was replaced with a telling of the Christmas story frequently interrupted by everyone singing appropriate carols. The first carol was “Hark, the Herald Angels Sing” and as the congregation sang, the angels – a small mob of pre-schoolers dressed as angels – marched down the aisle. Marching is what they were supposed to be doing, but that was forgotten as soon as they saw mommy or daddy and had to wave or say hi. Once they were all “settled” at the front of the church, the story continued and the next carol brought a group of slightly older children dressed as shepherds. More carols were sung as the oldest children performed the roles of the major characters and the pageant was complete. The actual service then began and the normal rituals were expedited somewhat as the children fidgeted up front. At the appropriate point, they all marched out to change from their costumes and have refreshments while the adults took communion. There was a joyful reunion of parents and children in the churchyard after the service.

As we walked back to the car we noticed a small group of people across the street chatting. One young man stood out because he wore a beret with holes punched through the felt and a strand of small twinkle lights poked through the holes. He had found some source of power and was standing there casually twinkling away. We found this quite amusing.

Back home, we all relaxed around the tree and began opening gifts.

Christmas day was always full of visitors. Neighbors would drop by with gifts – usually delicious baked goods – and we shared bags of citrus fruit from our trees. Christmas dinner was a group effort, but always a relaxed and enjoyable experience. There was time to stop and visit whenever a neighbor or friend dropped by. Our big meal was late afternoon and things were normally cleaned and put away by sunset.

This particular Christmas evening, we were all semi-comatose in front of the evening news when a car pulled into the driveway. It was several young adults Mom had befriended – she was always adopting strays – including the young man with the twinkle lights beret from the night before. Once everyone was introduced and settled, he plugged himself in and was soon twinkling away. It was most festive! Twinkle Lights was actually quite articulate and an interesting addition to the conversation. We were so engrossed that we didn’t notice another car pulling into the driveway until the occupants stepped onto the porch. I looked up to see one of Mom’s friends with her husband and another couple I didn’t recognize. She was staring at Twinkle Lights through the glass front door and I could see the shocked look on her face. You could see that she was considering a quick retreat. Fortunately, that didn’t happen and the group was soon finding Twinkle Lights and his friends as fun and fascinating as we did.

Mom had a gift for bringing disparate groups together and this Christmas evening was just another example. Although this was not a Big Christmas in the sense of large family gatherings or big events, it was very special. Thirty years later the images of those little angels marching down the aisle and the young man with the twinkling beret are still vivid memories.

A Special Library

A short walk from the plaza down a narrow street will find you looking through the loggia to the garden of the Kirby Smith house. Historically, this house was the birthplace of Confederate general Edmund Kirby Smith. For residents who’ve lived here more than a couple decades, it was also the public library.

As a kid, I would spend hours in the children’s section picking out another Nancy Drew mystery or Bobbsey Twins story. It was here I first fell in love with Celia Garth. There wasn’t room for comfortable seating areas or work tables – every square inch was taken up with books.

Space wasn’t the only problem, just getting to the library could be a challenge. Parking has always been a problem in downtown St. Augustine and the narrow streets leading to and from the library were a challenge to navigate in anything bigger than a VW bug. As the county grew, so did the need for a full-service library in a more accessible location. The new library at Davenport Park in “North City” has been joined by five more branches around the county – with the main branch conveniently located not far from Moultrie Creek headquarters.

The old building still serves the community as a library. It is now the library of the St. Augustine Historical Society and houses a fabulous collection of documents and records covering almost 500 years of the history of this area. There are plenty of great stories to be found here and lots of mysteries – both solved and un-solved.

This library is just a fascinating as the library of my childhood with a dedicated staff to assist visitors in their research efforts. I’ve also found it a delightful place to get re-acquainted with childhood friends.